For those who subtly manipulate, dominate and punish through playing victim or martyr, who cling, acting helpless, while holding the power, or who do things for others, appearing to be loving, but actually seeking to exercise power through keeping those they serve dependent upon them. For co-dependency and self-pity. Often there is an unconsciousness of motive and a denial of emotions. This essence enables one to love selflessly and empower others.