For those who feel unloved and therefore inflate their life experiences in order to appear special and extraordinary to others as well as to themselves. Whether it be an incident in the traffic or a psychic or spiritual experience, they will extract as much mileage from it as possible, exaggerating and expanding the experience in order to hold and captivate their audience. They are greedy for attention and seek to control and keep the focus of others on them through self-aggrandizement. They sap others' energy and are emotionally needy and demanding, desperate to be the centre of attention. They often believe that they are especially spiritually evolved. This essence brings a sense of belonging and self-acceptance, an ability to listen to others, to perceive the love and care and to feel close to others, without needing to dominate.